Question Ideas For The Guy You Love

When it comes to relationships getting to know each other is important. So is talking. To help you get started with that process we have come up with some question ideas for you to get conversations started. These questions should make it less awkward to be the one generating the conversation.

Questions For The Guy You Love

Relationship Questions

These questions are meant to stimulate questions about your relationship. Talking about your relationship can help you come closer as partners. Some of these questions on a first date might be kind of awkward though so choose wisely!

  • What would happen if your ex-partner wanted to start a relationship again?
    • Follow-up: How would it make you feel?
  • What is the difference between falling in love and loving someone?
  • Do you like group dates or one-on-one dates more?
  • Where does our relationship fit within your priorities?
  • What is your idea of a perfect date?
  • Are there any deal breakers for you in a relationship?
  • If I moved out of state what would happen to our relationship?
    • Alternative: If I had to move out of the country what would happen to our relationship?


Questions About You

You always want to know what others think about you. These questions are meant to help you determine what your partner thinks about you and feels about you.

  • What is your favorite trait of mine?
  • How will you know if I am the one or not?
  • What would you say or do if I told you I was dating someone else?
    • Make sure to let them know you are not or this might be awkward.
  • What did you think when you first saw me?
  • Is there anything I do that annoys you?


Personal Questions

Personal questions are great for first dates as long as you don’t pry too hard all at once. Use these questions to find out more about someone you are dating or interested in dating.

  • What movie made you genuinely laugh last?
  • What kind of food do you like?
    • Follow-up #1: What is your favorite?
    • Follow-up #2: Do you like spicy foods?
  • Do you like horror movies?
    • Follow-up: Can we watch one together with the lights out?
  • What trait of yours are you most insecure about? Why?
  • What is your favorite book?
    • Follow-up #1: How many times have you read it?
    • Follow-up #2: Who is your favorite character?
  • What is your favorite movie?
    • Follow-up #1: How many times have you watched it?
    • Follow-up #2: Who is your favorite character?
  • What moment in your life would you say is your most embarrassing?
  • What is your favorite color and why?


Activity Questions

Want to know what your partner likes to do when he isn’t working? Want to know what they do for work? Ask these questions to get date ideas, get a feeling if you have things in common and more.

  • What is your favorite thing to do on the weekends?
  • Would you try a dangerous activity or extreme sport?
    • Follow-up #1: Which sports or activities?
    • Follow-up #2: Why would you try those?
  • Do you like the outdoors?
    • Follow-up: What outdoors activities do you like?
  • Do you like what you do for work?
    • Follow-Up: What do you do for work? What is your position?
  • Do you play an instrument?
    • Follow-up #1: What instrument?
    • Follow-up #2: Have you ever played in a band or with others?


Family Questions

Family questions can get a little personal, be careful how you ask them as they can sometimes be touchy subjects. However, they might also bring insight into how your family will be down the road.

  • Do you have any siblings?
  • How are your relations with your family?
  • What are family dinners like in your family?
  • Do you have any interest in starting a family?
    • Follow-up #1: How far down the road?
    • Follow-up #2: Do you want to adopt or have your own kids?

Remember to think before asking some of these questions. This question bank varies in when you should ask them. Some questions are great for first dates while others might be best left until you are in a stable relationship. Either way these questions are meant to get you talking and having more in depth conversations. Enjoy!